Everything is budgeted for 125 people but grooms side of family is huge. How do you sent invites to some but not to others without hurting feelings?

We’re 15 and we have been together for 3 months. I really like him and I am a little nervous that his family (mom dad older sister& twin brother are going) won’t like me. Any tips? I feel like i am stressing out over nothing.

Is it a better idea to start at the top, with older generations, or at the bottom, with my generation? Any tips would be great.
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Goin’ at it on paper just ain’t cuttin it anymore; I’ve even started using circles & squares and numbering them like a pedigree. Is there a place online where I can […]

The fiance and I are looking into a few places on eastern Long Island to have our wedding. Before we start to call around we wanted to get a general idea of how much per person some places are. If our budget is say $150 per person we rather not waste our time […]

I had a very very small wedding that was just his family and less than 10 guests. Now some of the ladies from church (both of whom were invited to the ceremony) want to throw me an after-the-fact wedding shower. These two ladies are long time friends and watched (and helped) me grow up, and […]

I am marrying a man in the Army. He will be returning from Iraq at about the beginning of October. We want to have the wedding a couple weeks after he gets back. We can’t set a date yet, because of the fact that we don’t know what date he will for sure be back. […]

I’m trying to write a short skit about a pessimist and an optimist views on marriage. For pessimist, I already have nagging and the high US divorce rate. For optimist, I already have long-lasting partnership and someone who is always there for you.
I still need some more ideas though. What do you think a pessimist […]

Just out of morbid curiosity I guess, I’d like to know what was the shortest lasting marriage you have ever seen in your lifetime?

Is it a better idea to start at the top, with older generations, or at the bottom, with my generation? Any tips would be great.
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Goin’ at it on paper just ain’t cuttin it anymore; I’ve even started using circles & squares and numbering them like a pedigree. Is there a place online where I can […]

A wedding that is not small but not really big either.
And what makes it a big wedding? Is it the number of guests?
If so, where is the cut off between average size and large?